Dad, what do women really want?
Then, for the first time in my life, my Dad admitted to me that he hadn’t managed to figure it out either.
He also admitted to me that he still had not had a chance to comprehend what my mom really wanted after all those years of living together and all.
I was shocked!
How could he know how sub-atomic particles and everything else in the universe work but not knowing that?
Apparently he was not alone, for Sigmund Freud a well-known neurologist, the founder of psychoanalysis once said:
To make this situation even more convoluted, the internet is now filled with communities of men discussing/arguing about bizarre and complex theories in order to discover what the hell those crazy women could want?
To make it even more bizarre, it seems like the more intelligent men are, the better they are to solve a magnitude of complex problems at a time, the less they are capable to find the clue to the true nature of woman desire. And I am talking about here mostly geeks and gurus of different sciences and trades such as computer programmers, astrophysicist, engineers, or chemists for that matter.
Also, every one tends to agree on the fact that women have without any doubt superior communication and social skills that somehow puts them above men. Yet, for some peculiar reasons, none of them is able to communicate clearly what are their heart desires.
I think every man comes to a point in his life where he thinks he is ready to solve this issue once and for all. Let’s face it; everything could run way more smoothly knowing what they want!
First thing to put out there officially before revealing my answer to the ultimate question of all time:
Women are full of shit!
Women are so full of shit when it comes to what that they want that they mix themselves up with their own bullshit. They have so much different bullshit stories about it, depending on their audience, that it becomes virtually impossible for them to track all the different versions and where their bullshit is now at.
Every guy on this planet already heard a countless amount of women whining about how they would love going out with a real genuine nice guy only to witness them, going out with the worst asshole of the city one week later, while nice guys were actually lining up to go out with them.
Even if you come with dozens of real life examples, of situation when she manages to totally contradict herself within a 5-minute timeframe including hard evidence such as audio recording, computer log, camera footage, multiple witness, finger print, DNA sample .No matter what you say, she will still be able to bullshit her way out, frame reversing the situation and making it your fault for misunderstanding her.
They have perfected the art so much that in most case men will end up apologizing for a “crime” they did not commit.
I’m telling you, on the subject of what they want, women are so full of shit that they’re about to explode.
Even if it is not premeditated, it is still a fact!
Bottom line; don’t even try asking them, it would only create more confusion. Just stick with what you’re about to read next.
There are the 2 fundamental components to what women really want.
1 – Women want to feel safe.
The goal of life, biologically speaking, is: Survival and Reproduction. Well, for men it is more reproduction than survival. I think Bill Clinton made that clear when he risked his marriage for a blowjob along with his reputation as the commander-in-chief of the most powerful nation on Earth.
For women it is survival first, and only then comes reproduction. This has obvious evolutionary reasons. In fact, they have reached the summit in the aptitude of promising reproduction possibilities to men in order to acquire a better survival situation. You can see that everywhere, and in every aspect of men-women relationships.
You can see how women are instinctively masters at subtly positioning themselves in the safety of your house, in the safety of having a double of your car keys in their hand bag and having access to your bank account. For that, some people came to the conclusion that what they really want is money! But money is just a way to safety … and also more shoes, way, way more shoes, but I will come to that later.
Women will always be more attracted to man who are comfortably strong. They will feel good if you’re relaxed and present with a strong posture that communicates awareness, health, confidence and strength.
The more her partner knows how to achieve his goals, in control, even dominant, the more comfortable she feels. This refers to the partner being both mentally and physically strong, being the person providing security and balance in the relationship. This will make her feel relaxed, happy, and consequently horny.
On the opposite side, more her mate has incertitude, anxiety, worry, concern, fears and stress, the more she will tend to freak-out.
But dude, it’s not like that anymore, modern women are strong and independent! Wake up; we’re not in the 50’s anymore …
You think that 50 years of brainwashing feminism have changed the nature of what it took 3 million years to shape? The answer is, no.
2 – They want their beauty to be seen.
So what’s up with being always obsessed with shoes? Well, have you noticed that regardless of their situation most women will spend crazy amount of resources, money and time on beauty? Countless clothes, shoes, makeup, perfume, hair products, straightener or curler, skin cream, skin gel, skin mask accessories, purse, bags, nail polish, array of jewels, etc..
It is a never-ending list of desires! It is so exaggerated; I’m thinking to build a 2-level storage unit in my backyard just to accommodate my wife beauty stuff. For them shopping for beauty is a religion.
They simply want the world to see their beauty! This is the nature of the feminine principle!
Her beauty starts at the cute little girl hidden inside, goes by the sexy curve that nature gave her and goes up to the triple layer, nail nourishing, prink to red fading, glossy finish with glitter effect, super shielded nail polish that took more than 2 hours to apply.
Even if it is very doubtful that a polymer-based paint coating can actually nourish the nail, and that her new cream that contains apple stem cells and pure broccoli DNA will actually rejuvenate her skin; she strongly believes it!
Women are not living in a world driven by logic like men; they are driven by their emotions. They can act logically when they execute specific tasks, but they do all that in an emotionally driven realm. That’s why nothing they do or say makes sense from a purely logical point of view (the geek). But if you analyse what they do and you put the manifestation of their beauty and need for safety in the center of an emotionally driven world, then suddenly everything makes sense and even becomes logical after all!
So in conclusion, a guy who chills out in the company of a girl simply because he is not only in control of the situation but also confident and strong; a guy that has the ability to see her beauty inside out by making her actually feel it is the guy who is going to get laid that night!
Now, if you’re interested to study this subject in a deeper manner in order to improve your success with women, a great book that I’m sure will bring you a lot of value is The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them.
A lack of success with women can usually be attributed to one of those 2 things; either you don’t understand what women want or you think you know but have the wrong picture. Understanding what women want will save you a lot of time and money during the course of your life and might surly contribute to avoid catastrophe like divorce. It is one of those subjects that it is crucial for a man to understand or even master.
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