Of course, it is not socially appropriate to say that you don’t really like a man because he is a nice guy; and that goes for both men and women. According to society’s bullshit, since the takeover from the feminist extremist a couple of decade ago, the ultimate attitude a man should have is to be “nice.” Not great, not strong, not unique, not driven, or not any of those basic male traits for that matter, but … only the now glorious “being nice.”
Wow, “being nice.” it sounds so manly, so virile… isn’t it?
From their mother to daycare, and then to school, and also from everywhere all over the mass media, millions of men have been brainwashed to believe that the best way to be loved by women is to be nice.
But countless of nice guys, hitting a fucking wall, have already figured out that being nice was actually very counter-productive when it comes to women.
Of course, women are saying all over the place, that:
- I’m really looking for a nice guy, but they are so difficult to find these days.
- I envy the woman who will get you, because you’re such a nice guy.
- Don’t worry you’re going to find another great girl, because nice guys like you are rare!
Come on, there is a fucking epidemic of nice guys; what the hell are they talking about? You guys know better; that’s plain bullshit!
They are just following the social trend. What can I say? Women are followers, and they hate to go against the grain. They do what society tells them to do.
But the reality is, being a nice guy is very unattractive for women!
How many times have you seen women choosing a asshole over a nice guy? It’s a classic, it happens all the time! It’s not that women like jerks; it’s just that anything is better than a nice guy for them.
I know it might sound really counter-intuitive especially if you have been programmed to be a nice guy by your mom since your birth.
But here is the thing,
Being nice subtly implies sucking up
In other words, it’s a “seeking-approval-from-others” based mindset.
This is, in fact, unrealistic, dysfunctional and unattractive to women. All this simply because your true power as a man comes from inside, not from others’ approval. Other people around you respect you for it, and for that reason, they will then want to be in with you, not because you’re nice.
People in general don’t really respect suck-ups, especially women.
Nice guys are pussies!
I don’t want to insult anybody here, but at a certain level, that’s the cold hard truth!
How can you be a real bad-ass if the underneath mechanism that you use to get what you want from a women is to put her needs above yours and to please her, hoping she will reciprocate?
What message this kind of mindset sub-communicates? A pretty needy message!
The most powerful attraction instruments a man has to attract and keep women is his self-confidence and his dominance, which is pretty much the opposite of being needy!
Here are some of the behaviours that the common nice guy shows with women:
- Doing the right thing according mainstream standards.
- Playing a safe game.
- Being a “good” boyfriend.
- Placing her needs above his.
- Avoiding pissing her off at all costs.
- Repression to avoid irritating her.
- Avoiding to deal with real relationship problems.
- Living in fear of losing her.
- Tolerating unacceptable behaviour from her.
- Giving her the leadership role in order to please her.
- Comply with all her requests.
- Begging and whining for sex.
- Focusing only on giving her pleasure in bed.
- Hiding the things that she would not like about his true nature.
Do these sounds like confidence-based behaviours? I don’t think so.
In fact, translate those into their direct opposite and you will be right on what the Alpha male who attracts plenty of women would do.
By being nice, trying to please her, seeking her approval, all what the nice guys is actually doing is the complete opposite of what works! That is why women don’t really like nice guys!
Thank you society and feminist propagandist for teaching our sons how to become future dysfunctional pussies!
Trying to do the right thing
At one point, when you want to become a real man, you need to stop tacking advice from the mass media, school or your mother!
Just be who you truly are, do what you truly want, be selfish for a change, and for God’s sake, stop looking for women’s approval in everything you fucking do!
On that subject, what is wrong about being a little selfish and taking care about your own needs first?
The idea that being selfish is bad comes from the same place as the idea of being nice is what you need to do to attract women does. It doesn’t make any more sense! How can you be the backbone of your family, and the one who assumes leadership roles, if you’re not able to satisfy your own needs before the ones those around you?
Face your fear, set clear limits, live with integrity, and go after your goals!
Yes, you might be criticized.
Yes, some people will not like you, and others might call you a jerk.
I receive hate comments from angry feminists saying that I’m a backward ass-hole or a douche-bag because I tell what I truly think about women on this site.
So what? I just hit the delete button!
I’m not going to write politically correct crap to please everyone; I’m not Men’s Health Magazine!
A Lion Does Not Worry About The Opinion Of Sheep
Being a nice guy sucks big time, and women don’t like it! It doesn’t mean you need to be a jerk or a bad-boy. It just mean that you must stop sucking up, and be what you truly are with pride!
A man, a normal imperfect man, someone who has usual manly feelings like being naughty, aggressive, controlling or destructive or think about sex every 2 minutes with some healthy courage, passion, strength, discipline and pride mixed in.
Do yourself a favour: stop being nice!
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