So you wish to become more powerful! You just landed on the perfect place my friend. There is no straighter way than what I’m going to outline here right now to increase your power. But first, a little bit about what power is: power is not a physical thing; it’s a feeling, an attitude, a way of doing things!
You don’t need money or powerful friends. What you need is already there!
Yeah, that’s right! In fact, you already have power inside you. You just need to learn how to use it, and especially how to stop giving it away.
The already powerful people on this world want you to believe that you need a lot of money and connections in order to have power, but it’s nothing more than another con to keep you in the rat race and exploit your power to reach their own objectives.
But … but I read in a magazine that I needed a MBA and … – Forget what they said in the freaking magazine.
- You don’t need money to get power; you need power to get money.
- You don’t need connections to get power; you need power to get connections.
Crafty as usual, they just reversed the formula so that it may look legit, yet you’re running around trying to bite your own tail without any success.
The most important component of power is this feeling, this drive inside you that makes you take what you want! When you deal with someone else, you always have the choice to either take the power or give the power.
Your power on others is relative to your social value.
When two people or more interact with one another, automatically a social hierarchy is established. Based on body language and many other subtle social clues your mind will establish some sort of social rank for each and every individual in the group. Once each of these persons have determined his/her own rank and position in the hierarchy, he/she would start to communicate it and act in congruence with it, which would then allow others to “synchronize.” After a minute the hierarchy is pretty much established.
I bring that concept because you are most likely to automatically surrender your power to people with a higher rank, and they are most likely to take the power from you as a result. When the social hierarchy has been established, the power will start “flowing” automatically from bottom to top. AUTOMATICALLY, without having anything to do!
Well, you can do something …
You can use the social value hierarchy at your advantage
This social value mechanism is very conceptual! What I mean is that it cannot be touched; it’s only in your head. What would happen if you could enforce yourself the belief that your own social value is 10 out of 10?
Well you are going to sub-communicate it to the group, and they will rank you higher as a result! This, in turn, is going to make them more prone to surrender their power to you.
The only problem with this is that you need to be congruent. If you’re faking it without believing it yourself, it won’t work! Because you always sub-communicate your true beliefs, no matter what.
But with practice and new experience, you can change those beliefs.
You will start to take it for what it really is …just a simple mind game!
Only 3 Step to increase your inner power:
Steps 1 – Stop giving your power away.
You don’t have to surrender to others; there are alternative solutions. Don’t let social rules block you. Stop being a fucking pussy and realize that most of the things you dream about are just simply at your arm’s reach! You just need to do what is required to get them, and if you don’t know how, then learn it. Stop being impressed by the appearance of others, it’s just a mind game! They just try to establish higher value, but you don’t need to acknowledge it.
Step 2 – Use fully your power and grow it stronger.
Just like in case of any new habit, you need to enforce it and focus on developing your skills. It is not complicated; you just need to focus on doing it! Go get what you want in life. Put more pressure to get shit done and keep the attitude, be more aggressive in life! Do everything you can to increase your social value. Dress clean and nice, just a little better than the others in your social environment. Get in shape, put some muscles on. Have good posture, stand tall and proud. Be proud of who you are, and have a powerful opinion of yourself. Play the game! Practice it on a daily basis!
Step 3- Take other people’s power.
Be more selfish, when others are surrendering you their own power, just take it and use it! Moreover, start convincing others to give you their power. Convince them to “help” you! To increase your power exponentially, you need to leverage others’ power. It’s a skill like any other, just practice it!
You can start doing all that right now! Power is a skill, an attitude that you can develop! Anyone who really wants may become powerful. Money is part of the results of having power, but it is absolutely not a prerequisite.
Again, it’s up to you!
It’s up to you to kick your own ass, to stop procrastinate, to stand up and take what you want in life!
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