Yes, each day when you wake up, choose to live a bad-ass day!
Fuck the rain, fuck the cold, fuck the traffic; once you have made your choice, you’re the one in charge of how you react to those things; you choose your words, choose your thoughts, and choose your responses. This morning the choice have been made, you’re the boss and that’s it!
We are our choices.― Jean-Paul Sartre
The life you dream about, the man you wish to be, whatever it is, if another man already did it, it means it’s possible for you, too! We are all born with the capacity to reach our goals and have full lives. Even if you’re in prison, have a nagging wife or a severe handicap, there is always a way simply because this comes from inside, this comes from who you are, and it only depends on what you do with it.
Don’t put too much weight on the opinion of others; there will always be someone to tell you that you can’t do this, that it is impossible, that this is a bad idea. It’s not about ignoring the advice or the feedback you receive from your surroundings; it’s about taking it for what it really is: only a feedback. It doesn’t mean it’s accurate; in fact, it is probably not.
How would your life be different if…you stopped allowing other people to dilute or poison your day with their words or opinions? Let today be the day…you stand strong in the truth of your beauty and journey through your day without attachment to the validation of others ― Steve Maraboli
The people giving you feedback see you as a reflection of themselves; they think because they can’t do it, you can’t do it either. They instinctively know that you both have the same capacity and that’s why they reach that conclusion. But the thing is, it’s not because they lack confidence in themselves, because they are narrow-minded, because they are weak and cannot face their own fears that you can’t do it!
It’s not about feasibility, it’s about confidence.
You must have confidence in yourself; the only thing that can prevent you from making the choice and act on it is if you don’t believe you can do it.
That’s why, just as much as taking care of your health should be on your list of priorities, so should developing self-confidence. You must deeply trust in your capacity to do about anything that a human being can do.
This is top priority.
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Once you got that going pretty good, you can make any choice you want!
Don’t even start complaining, blaming or try to convince other haters of your point; it’s just a complete waste of time and energy; anyway, the way they think is out of your circle of influence. They have nothing to do with your success; it’s all about your beliefs, your choices and your actions!
Yes, they might be right on something, it’s not going to be easy; there will be problems and shit will hit the fan from time to time.
But, we call that living on planet Earth!
Even if you live your life as a pussy, take only conservative decisions and have the most boring life ever, you will still have problems; life will still throw you some curve balls! There is no escape from that one.
Be smart, don’t take stupid and unnecessary risks, but go get what you want and take the setbacks as simple learning experiences that help weed out the weak and nourish the strong.
Making the choice implies doing it!
The title of this article is not: Think about the right choice and dream about doing something cool.
You don’t have any more time to waste; your life is ending one minute at a time. You are going to be dead soon, that is a truth; in fact, this is pretty much the only thing you can be 100% sure of in this world.
Are you going to wait until tomorrow?
Will you still be there tomorrow?
Any stupid car accident or whatever can happen before the end of this day, and it’s done, game over man!
You have no control over what’s to come tomorrow; your only have control right fucking now!
Make the choice and put the wheels in motion!
- Get your shit together.
- Face your fears.
- Start strength training.
- Work on your confidence.
- Kill your inner pussy.
- Stop putting women on a pedestal.
- Accomplish your mission.
This life is yours, you have only one shot in this universe and today is your day; drop the mask, be the fucking man, and step into the bad-ass zone!!!