I’d like to share a concept that is fundamental if you want to take control of your reality and that unfortunately too many guys fail to understand. Let me introduce you to the concept of “reality paradigm.”. A reality paradigm is a conceptual model of reality. That’s what reality is for you. This concept, pretty much deprecates the most commonly used concepts of “the real reality”.
You can actually customize reality for your own agenda!
You must have heard several times in your family or among friends where people kept telling you to stop dreaming and get a job because it doesn’t work like that in the REAL world!
Hummm… Maybe … or maybe not!
I order to create your own reality, you must first understand what reality is! Technically, like Morpheus, (The Matrix) says to Neo:
“If real is what you can feel, smell, taste and see, then ‘real’ is simply electrical signals interpreted by your brain.”
Basically, your subconscious mind is always processing the information coming from the outside world; television, radio, school, your friends, boss, co-workers and society in general. All those subtle sub-communications that people are giving you through body language, all those trends of what’s acceptable and what’s not, what is possible and what’s not, what is popular and what’s not…. All these are used to shape a representation in your mind of how the world works.
There is a keyword here guys: Representation
This is where most people are getting it wrong. They think that this “model of reality” in their mind is “The real reality!”
The real world is like this, the real world is like that …
I can already hear you: But…. I’m a very down to earth and realistic guy… I can see reality for what it is! I’m smart; I take my information from different sources and hence I stay objective…
If you think like that, then think again because you’re on the potato field my friend!
Do you think the people who run the show live in the same reality as people who are part of the show?
Yes or no, whatever your answer …your choice, your reality!
The day that you internalise the fact that there is no such thing as ‘The Reality’ and that every person on this planet makes his own, is going to be the day when your reality goes from one-dimensional to multi-dimensional.
And that my friends alone is a game changer!
Have you ever heard about mass mind control?
It’s basically how the elite control the common people. It has always been and will always be; there are no conspiracy theories here. But wait a minute. We are in a free world now, unlike ever before! Nobody is controlling me! Well … you are free to do whatever you want in this reality that they are framing you in.
You’re free to go wherever you want in your cage little bird!
It’s not in the interest of the people up the food chain to have too much competition, right! They influence the population through the mass media and the school system; basically, they are shaping our society’s reality.
They are setting the limits of what is possible, straight in your mind without you even noticing it.
You are what you think you are, and the world is what you think it is!
Don’t let any random idiot influence your taught and values! Why would they be worth listening to anyway? Just because they have a degree or have authority, or better yet, because they are experts? … It’s all bullshit. I say fuck them!
First, free your mind then create your own reality, it’s that easy!
Free your mind 101
1. Stop watching TV.
Especially the news. Same thing goes for radio, newspaper, etc. Mass media is simply poison for your mind. Always remember that about 90% of the information coming from the mass media is marketing, and they are actually pure bullshit. Don’t let the TV or radio run even as a background noise because you are still hearing it and get influenced by it.
If you need specific information about an event, search specifically for it! If you want to relax, just put a DVD movie or your own MP3 music on. Even then, be aware of the influence of a movie or music on your paradigm, choose what’s good for you. If you want to read or learn, read no bullshit original books or blogs like this one. Instead, there are plenty of them out there about any and every subject.
2. Stop listening to anyone.
Don’t take anything that people are telling you for a fact or as “Real information.” Even at school, even at the doctor, even those bullshit scientific studies they come out with every day are all just additional means of marketing to make you buy some junk! Most of the time it’s only an echo of what’s in the mass media anyway. Always remember that what they are telling you is their reality, it’s only true in their own mind.
Now design and build your own reality
Shape reality 101
1. Draw the blueprint.
The easiest way to start up is to pick up models. Find successful people that inspire you. True originals! Read about them. Put their values, beliefs, characteristics and habits on paper. Define those characteristics.
For example: Arnold Schwarzenegger consider himself and talks about being a champion, being a winner. Now define what a champion mindset really is.
Use those as a start-up point to define and put in writing your new value and belief system. Try to be smart … don’t put “be a millionaire” because being a millionaire is not a value or a belief, it is the result of the process after many years of living with certain beliefs like “money is everywhere”, “I’m a producer not a consumer,” etc.
Take your time to make it great, do some research, go beyond your current beliefs. At this point, you are writing the blueprint of your first evolution, you 2.0 version. Don’t forget to integrate the concept of reality paradigm; you want a flexible reality, so with time from an evolution to another it’s going to be easier and easier to shape your reality…. You want to have a reality that shapes reality! Get it!
Also keep in mind that you have to respect the law of your country and the law of gravity … no superman like flying or laser eyes or other shit like that. We’re not in a comic book. A little focus please.
2. Use auto suggestions.
Now that you have a first blueprint, you don’t want to forget about it! You put all that into an affirmation form.
Example: I’m a champion, I like competition, and I always want to win.
Once you have your big affirmation list, you are going to read it at the beginning and at the end of each day. Like a prayer. Put some emotion into it. Feel what you read!
This will prevent you from forgetting about it, and this will also allow it to stick into your freshly freed mind!
Personally, I got this cool software that allow me to custom build brainwave entrainment tracks and insert me own suggestion in order to create auto-suggestion or visualisation meditative audio track; it’s very sweet and powerful. You can get the Neuro-Programmer here.
3. Use visualisation
The daily auto suggestion will give some result, but it’s nothing compared to visualisation. Visualisation is very powerful when it’s well-done; your mind won’t see the difference between it and a ‘true’ life experience. Create a couple of scenarios in which you’re going to be able to fully experience this new reality. Once a day for 5 to 10 minutes, close your eye and create the scenario in your mind, like a movie in which you are taking the place of the main character. Focus on experiencing all your senses, smell, sound, temperature, lightning … imagine all the details, make it very realistic. At first, it can be difficult, but after a couple of times you’ll be good at it.
4. Fake it until you make it
Now you have to realize that your mind and your actions are interconnected. To make this work, it is imperative that you walk the walk! Start by pretending like it’s already done, fake it, play it like an actor would do, just fucking do it man!
5. Track those new habits
At the end of each week, take some time to review the progress of all the key points of your new blueprint. Rate your performance, highlight the difficult areas. Be proud of your strength and double the effort on your weakness. Fine-tune your blueprint.
Be sure to be consistent in doing that for a solid 90 days. After that, take a break and let it go for a while. Without noticing it … your new reality will take shape. A couple of months later you will be shocked to read the old blueprint and realize that 80% of it is now part of your current reality! It will, then, be the time to draw the next blueprint and get prepared for your next evolution.
Imagine what you could do, what you could be. It’s up to you to set the limits of your reality. It’s all on you! You’re responsible, you’re in charge!
If you want to learn more about this subject, how this works, more details on the techniques and the different ways to change your paradigm, I recommend you to read The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy. It is definitively one of the best books on the subject. Follow the plan, change your subconscious programming and change your reality! It’s also available in audio !
Stop wasting your time and start making things a reality!
Until next post …
To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often. -W.C