Before you go on and explore this article in detail, please read “How to be dominant with women, Part 1” first.
Be physically dominant
Stand straight, shoulders back and head high, read “Badass body language” for more details on this. When you walk with her, grab her hand and lead her. If you walk on the side of the street, it’s your duty as the dominant figure to position yourself on the side of the passing car in order to protect her. Use her elbow to direct her smoothly in the right way.
When you stand still side by side, put your arms around her by crossing her shoulders or neck. Don’t hold her strong enough to inflict pain, but she needs to feel your strength. She needs to feel that you could crush her at any moment, but because you are in control, and because she is yours to love, you will never harm her, and you will only use that physical strength to protect her from any danger.
You need to physically lead the way. That’s where the gentlemanly door-opening thingy comes in; you’re always walking slightly in front of her, thus removing obstacles from the way.
You must look like a boss
Appearances are so important, especially for women. Pay attention to your corporal hygiene, clothes and accessories. Dominant man look like they are in charge. Observe the difference between manager and employee, between officer and soldier. The one in charge is always more slick! When with other people, always take noticeable spot in the group where everyone can see and hear you properly.
You must reward and punish
Like previously mentioned, it is your job to maintain discipline and the respect of the house rules. For that, you must be able to reward and punish.
Good submissive behaviour must be rewarded. The best way to reward women without creating yourself problems in the future is by praising them and giving them more attention. If she has a good overall behaviour, just express genuinely how beautiful she is when she does that or how proud you are to be with such a good woman who does this. When she is good, flood her with love and compliments.
If she is disrespectful or starts showing signs of unacceptable behaviour, immediately end the current activity and remove all the attention you have on her. She instantly becomes unworthy of being noticed by you. She is temporarily banished from your world. Do not react to her drama, just calmly ignore her existence. This is like mental torture for women, because they crave for attention. If she does not live with you, drop her at her place, and cut off all communication for a period of 2 to 7 days depending on the gravity of the transgression. If she lives with you and she is the mother of your child, ignore her totally and keep yourself busy. If you need to communicate with her for important reason like kids, go with a business tone and keep it short. A good dominant figure doesn’t need to raise his hand on women. If she is bad-shit-crazy, well kick her out of your life, break-up or divorce. Take responsibility for your bad choice, learn from it, and move on with your life.
As long as you are being a good dominant figure and things are all under control:
- She must respect you at all times.
- She must not argue.
- She must not rebel against your dominance.
- She must speak to you with a soft tone.
- She must never use aggressive language, posture or movement towards you.
- She must say thank you when you treat her.
When those off-limits things happen, stay cool and firm, explain what she did wrong and punish her.
If it gets out of control too often, seriously consider the fact that you’re doing something wrong. Take responsibility for her bad behaviour, come back and read the articles Part 1 and 2 again, also read How to tame your girl friend and correct the situation.
It is as important as punishment so remember: when she serves you well, give her plenty of attention and tell her how a good girl she is!
Establishing your dominance in the bedroom is crucial as sexuality is at the core of the relationship. It is also very important because it is with sex that most women take control and make their beta-male boyfriend their little puppet.
Let’s be clear here: you don’t need to win point with her in the daily life in order to fulfil your sexual need. She is not in charge of regulating your sex-life. Any attempt of gaining control or conditioning your behaviours by controlling the amount of sex you have is a severe and punishable transgression.
That being said, sometimes it is normal that she doesn’t feel like having sex, because of stress, tiredness, period, sickness, fluctuating hormone levels, etc. Use your judgement!
If she has been a good girl, just let her rest. If she is a little tired or sore from last night, she can always give you oral sex. It is an easy and practical alternative that should be rewarded obviously.
Just make sure she is not manipulating you or turning this into a recurring pattern, being the dominant you’re not going to sleep sexually frustrated without a good reason.
As the dominant figure, it is you job to initiate sex; notice how I didn’t write that it’s your job to demand for sex! As the dominant, you don’t demand, you just do it. If there is a problem, she will tell you: Please not right now, following with a good reason.
If you know, you will have sex later on; it can be wise to put her in the mood, by telling her some naughty things, biting and sucking her neck or spanking her ass more than usual. Women don’t always get turn on instantly, starting the play in advance is a fun way to communicate her where things are going.
Once it’s time to get busy, there is one important thing you should understand: your goal is not to make her come first 16 times with 10 different crazy sex-ninja techniques, and once you are totally exhausted, and have muscle pain in the forearm, neck and tongue have your 2 minutes of glory.
I know that’s how mainstream society portray a good lover, but that is also called being submissive in bed!
As a dominant, you ravish her in order to satisfy your own sexual desire, and she will take her pleasure from being sexually at your mercy, and if by the way there is a position or something you crave to do that happens to give her orgasm, well why not?
Understand that her pleasure is connected to your pleasure. So just let your primal sexual instinct free, and fuck her like you want and have a blast doing it.
As the dominant, it makes no sense to focus on her pleasure; don’t worry about that because most of the times she will get her pleasure if you get yours.
Again, if she gives you great pleasure, like she should do, praise her about her beautiful body and her sensuality.
Part two ends here guys; read part 3, for more. Stay tuned!
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