You are probably already aware that assuming a dominant role in any relationship with women will make them way more attracted to you than if you’re merely neutral or submissive. In fact, even if it’s not the official media-friendly version, the reality is that a good 80% to 90% of women depending on location will actually enjoy and prefer being submissive to the right dominant man.
Anyone with some experience in relationships will confirm you that in any kind of relationship there is always a dominant and a submissive, a leader and a follower. This idealist feminist fantasy that men and women need to be both neutral and have the same role is extremely naïve, unrealistic, unworkable and will most likely ensure that your relationship with the woman you love will crash and burn sooner than later.
The basic reason why women are attracted to more dominant men is mainly because they figure: if he can’t even handle me, how the hell he is going to be able to protect me from anything else?
No matter how much feminist brainwashing they have been influenced by, it’s part of their core instincts!
Another thing is, being the dominant is not an easy job, a woman is way more free if she doesn’t have the burden of carrying that hard job!
Young and naive feminist women want to take the dominant role but while they learn about life, they realize one thing: being the dominant doesn’t mean having all what you want, easy, every day!
Far from that …
Being dominant means responsibilities
To be the dominant, you need to have a desire to be the responsible one, to plan for the future and guide the others, to initiate things, to support, encourage and take the responsibility for failures and problems.
It’s all on your shoulders 24/7! With great power, comes great responsibility!
You’re responsible for her, for the kids, for the relationship, for the health, wealth and future of every member of your family.
If your house catches fire and one of your kids is stuck inside, you’re the one who is going to risk or even give his life to save them. It’s your duty; it’s your role.
This is a heavy job, and this is one of the reasons that drive women sooner or later to desire the freedom that the submissive role provides. Being with a dominant man, she is liberated from making the decisions and the responsibilities that come with them.
Even if she cannot openly express it because of the feminist ideology and oppression in the media, you have to realise that being in the submissive role is something she actually receives satisfaction from, and, for the same reason, this also apply to sex which is at the heart of men-women relationships.
When things go wrong, you’re responsible to figure them out. She can provide support if requested or just sit back and relax.
In both cases, the submissive crave the dominant’s action plan, in face of adversity or anything else in life.
So take the time to explain her what the play is.
You must be trustworthy
At the core of this power exchange between the dominant and the submissive there is trust. In a free modern society, submission is not something that you impose on women but something that they give you when they can fully trust you with their life.
To be trustworthy, you need to have integrity with yourself, to keep your word at all times and to fulfil your responsibility as a good dominant diligently.
Only once you have proven that she can surrender to you and that everything is going to be sweet under your dominance, she will do just that.
Especially if you’re young, you definitively need to demonstrate that you can be trusted and that you know what you’re doing.
You’re the boss
See it like this: you’re the boss and your girlfriend or wife is your lieutenant. Obviously, what she thinks matters, she is second-in-command in your unit, and you’re the one who gave her the promotion. But let’s be clear about one important thing here: you are the one who makes the decision and take the responsibility for it. If you’re smart, you should ask for her opinion, her point of view or ideas but if they are unreasonable, you do not necessarily have to implement them.
You’re the boss, you’re in charge, you make the decisions, and if they turn to shit, you’re responsible for fixing them.
Realize one thing: yes, she wants to be heard; yes, she wants to be trusted, although she doesn’t want to make the decisions and take the responsibilities that come with them!
She just doesn’t want that job! Why would she? She would be stressed, anxious, and it would just suck for her. She just wants to enjoy the fucking ride!
Being the boss also means enforcing discipline. You must be the one who set the rules and the limits, and you must enforce the consequences if limits are broken. Obviously, this is also valid for kids if you have some.
A dominant man has great self-control and will never allow the situation to get out of hands. When you communicate with women, don’t gossip, speak only when you need to communicate something with real value and maintain strong eye contact when you speak to her. Don’t get too emotional, stay in control. Lead the conversation and don’t ever ask for permission for anything. Tell her what you’re doing and let her choose if she wants to be in or not. This also applies to sex.
If she ever comes to ask you to take the lead, it means you are doing something wrong.
Can you imagine yourself going to your boss telling him that he need to take the lead on something? That would be awkward and disrespectful unless, in fact, you are the one who runs the show.
Try to think about what being a boss entails.
You need to take charge in simple everyday stuff, for example: It’s Saturday night and you chose to reward her with a dinner at a restaurant because she had been a good girl all week long. Then, you chose the restaurant and you even requested a specific table for the occasion. Then you chose her place and pulled her chair showing her where to sit, and then you chose the food and made the order. If you’re with the family, you sit at the head of the table. Before leaving the place, you paid the bill. If the service or the food sucked, you then spoke with the manager or dragged her to another place.
Forget about those new modern western models for relationships because that kind of crap doesn’t work; statistics on divorce pretty much make my point for me. Trust me! Be smart and stick to what worked very well in all cultures around the world since the last few thousand years, and it’s going to be fine. Just trust the knowledge of those billions of other men who came before you on this.
Around the house you do the heavy work: this may include house, land and vehicle maintenance. She does the cooking, clothes and general indoor cleaning. It’s her job to feed and nurture the kid and yours is to enforce order and discipline.
If your daily work or business requires more energy than hers, or that you bring more money home, it’s only logical that you take more rest once at home. Explain it to her that you’re doing harder work and you have more responsibilities, thus you need to take a fucking nap! It’s her duty to make sure that you can.
If she is not a nut-job, and you’re a good dominant figure in her life, then there will be no problem with that.
In exchange, you need to respect her domestic work and be grateful for it. When she does a good job, it’s your duty as the dominant figure to express your appreciation, and even reward her good behaviour once in a while. On the long run, she will love and take pride in taking care of you because she knows that if she doesn’t keep up with you, then there are plenty of other women who would. This will make her special.
Part one ends here guys; read part 2, where it becomes even more interesting. Stay tuned!
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