The notion of sex-rank is a very important one for anyone who wants to succeed in dating, long term relationships or with women in general. Assigning a sexiness rank from 1 to 10 to people of the opposite sex could seems to be a rude and superficial way of categorizing people, but it is a metaphor that represents the cold hard truth about men-women relationships.
It is true that humans are now civilized social creatures but let’s not forget about who we are under those fairly new persona. Like other mammals, we are highly sexual creatures. Let’s not overlook that our biological goals are survival and reproduction, a fact that is reflected in every aspect of our lives. It is also why relationships and sex are so important for mankind to be happy and stay healthy.
Almost everything we do is somehow unconsciously related to sexuality, and therefore to your sex-rank.
Men or women will only engage in sexual relationship with someone of the same rank. Of course, a man with a rank of 7 will also be attracted by women of superior rank, in that case 8 and above, but those women will never be attracted to him because of his lower rank; the same way he is not attracted by women of rank 6 and under. This dynamic allows the pairing of men and women of the same rank.
A very common situation is when 2 persons of the same rank start a relationship but overtime, one of them grows or descends his rank. It would not take long until the person with the highest rank will lose sexual interest for the other person.
That would be the most common reason why at one point, only a short time after the relationship has started, usually after 1 year or 2, the sex just stops. Since the relationship seems solid, most guys just drop their game, stop going to the gym, wear more sloppy casual clothes and reduce hygiene. On the other side, women start gaining weight at an alarming rate, reduce hair maintenance, stop putting on make-up and also wear less sexy clothes.
If you drop all the stuff you were doing when in dating phase, when you were a 8, in order to attract women, you can easily drop to 7 and then to 6 in the following years. If your partner doesn’t drop as much, or worst increase her rank, your sex life, and the relationship for that matter, is doomed.
As men we know very quickly how to determine a women’s sex rank. The reason for that is because men are conceived to be attracted by women with the best possible gene and level of heath in order to better support their gene-transmission over time.
Beauty and fitness level allow you to determine their sex-rank on a visual level.
In fact, we can determine a woman’s sex-rank just by looking at her no more than 2 seconds.
For that same reason, women can change their sex-rank quite easily compared to men. Lose a little weight, get a new hair style, better make-up and a couple of high-end yoga pants, and she can move from being a 7 to an 8 in a couple of month. On the other side, they have to be more careful about their health otherwise their sex rank will naturally decline with age.
Determining a man’s sex rank requires a little bit more information because more elements come into play.
- Fitness level
- Overall look
- Leadership and power
- Confidence level and social ability
- Pre-selection by other women
- Could be a good father?
These are the main categories and only represent the tip of the iceberg when it comes to men’s sex-rank. Those things are, in general, more difficult to develop than just losing 10lbs and buying some sexy clothes. Wealth, power and confidence are things that take time and dedication to develop. For that reason, men who are involved in some self-development activities will tend to increase their sex-rank with age. In general, every aspect that can make you a great well-rounded man will contribute to increase your sex-rank. Many of those things are communicated on this website.
Boost your sex-rank
If your capacity to pull hot chicks or to maintain a long term relationship with sexuality is part of your life’s priorities, like it should be if you’re a healthy man, being involved in a never-ending quest to boost your sex-rank, then it is something you should be doing.
Anyway, you should always strive to be a better man in general, which, in return, will maintain or increase your sex-rank, and that being in a long-term relationship or not. Here are some of the specifics you should work on when it comes to your sex rank.
Your fitness level
You really should hit the gym, have a great diet and keep those 2 habits for the rest of your life for many reasons regarding sex-rank. To be physically strong is a great alpha male trait because it is of high significance for women to feel protected, and help with leadership when they are with other men. It is also a proof that you have a certain level of discipline and self-respect. Moreover, it displays that you are vigorous and likely to produce strong and healthy babies.
Your overall look
Your look displays many other things that come in play for your sex rank. It shows your social class, your wealth, your taste, your level of hygiene, and it can give an idea about your confidence level and power as well. This is an easy one; you should always wear great and clean clothes, which represent wealth and power. There are always ways to shop smartly for classic high end items in off-season sales and build up a great wardrobe over time without affecting your wealth.
Wealth means protection, comfort, high social status and a great future for her babies. That’s why you should have a strategy and always work on improving your wealth. Many guys spend all their money on luxury cars in order to display wealth. It is true that you will reap some very cool short-term benefits by doing that, but it will greatly affect your real long-term wealth. I personally prefer to play a smarter long game and build real wealth instead of focusing on creating a very expensive illusion with cars. You can still project wealth with great clothes, a fake Rolex, and a nice condo or house, which are financial vehicles anyway, for an affordable price, while you’re investing the bulk of your money. Being smart with money will become apparent to women later in the relationship.
Your leadership and power capacity
Being the boss, is a thing that can be faked in short term dating game, while being developed for real power later on in life. Being the leader of other man is a very powerful aphrodisiac that will turn most women on. You can display leadership in sport, at work or by running your own business. Any position in which she can see you leading, exerting power or any kind of social dominance over other people will increase your sex-rank.
Your confidence level and social ability
Your confidence level is one of the most powerful tools to increase your sex-rank simply because it allows you to get what you want in life, including women, and they know it. It usually goes in hand with fairly good social skills that allow you to get even more out of things in life.
Your pre-selection by other women
Having other women of a similar or higher rank than yours in your company as friends is powerful tool that can help you keep your sex-rank high. Since it is difficult to evaluate quickly a man’s real sex-rank, women will base their evaluation on credentials given by other women. If you are often seen in the company of beautiful women, even if you don’t have sex with them, it will be considered as a proof that you have the same sex-rank than them.
Your capacity to be a good father
It’s not only about displaying alpha male characteristics, such as confidence, dominance, wealth and power. If you don’t display the characteristics of a potentially good father, like affection for kids, empathy, loyalty, patience and good at setting limits, you will lose some points. Remember that the biological goal of women is to make healthy babies and assure them a safe and proper environment for growth.
Your sex-rank is not something fixed, and that is why you should keep that in check! Losing some points can cost you your wife and family. Also watch out, if your wife or girlfriend get in top shape, buy some sexy cloths and get her hair fixed, she can destabilize the relationship symmetry and you might not have the time to follow her before the inevitable happens. On the other side, by gradually increasing your sex-rank overtime, and staying on top of your game, you will put yourself in a position of power in any relationship with women.
You want to take action right away?
Upgrading your look and style could be the quickest and easiest way to increase your sex and social rank while will giving you a good platform to grow from. But before you invest to mush money into new clothes and accessories, I strongly recommend you to read Dressing the Man: Mastering the Art of Permanent Fashion has it is the bible for how to dress, class and style. With the very detailed information in this book, color, line, size, shape, you will have all the knowledge required to optimize your look to the highest level. Its probably the best book on the subject.
Until next post,