If you’re someone who usually goes after what he wants in life, who is not afraid to take action and make things happen, it might be probable that one of those things you’re trying to figure out is how to get a relationship with a very hot woman, also called a “10”.
I’m sure you have already noticed that the hottest women are not necessarily with the most handsome or rich man around. At first glance, it may seem that sometimes there are glitches in the matrix, so to speak.
You can see this very average looking but well-rounded guy going out with a very hot girl, a 9 or a 10. If the social value of the girl is clearly very high, you kind of have a problem figuring out how this guy could actually pull that off.
The quest for a 10
Typically, here is how most guys, who have a goal of hooking up with a 10, become good enough with women in general, and they achieve a hook-up with a very nice women but fail to reach the desired level 10.
First, they take the decision to solve this women issue once and for all. They take membership to the local gym, learn about fashion, get nicer clothes and increase their level of hygiene. Then, they start going out more and exposing themselves to more opportunities for the sake of meeting a lot more women. To increase their chances at getting the hook-up of a lifetime, they start reading about seduction and pickup artistry (PUA) on the web, and maybe even read a few book on how to attract women. They then fix some of their personal issues, develop a good game, learn more about sex, and get more confidence!
Now at this point, they have increased their sex-rank and usually have some success.
They can get themselves a very nice girlfriend like an 8 in a pretty short time!
But the 9 and 10 are still completely out of their league. It still seems those girls are only attracted by millionaires, movie and rock stars!
They just seem unreachable; something is missing!
Crossing the very hot-girl threshold
The reasons why you could never cross that hot girl threshold are mainly because of the following:
- You still have a background of social anxiety.
- You lack true purpose in life besides your quest of getting a 10.
- Your lifestyle and your overall experience in this world are just not cool enough.
Women instinctively feel those things without knowing what those things are on an intellectual level, but that’s why you’re just not good enough for a 9 or a 10.
Let’s now see how to get those issues fixed in a suitable way in order to make those super-hot chicks fight for your attention.
Go after your deep life purpose and not after hot women.
The most common problem of guys who try to get hot women is that their purpose and drive in life is actually hunting hot women. Becoming excellent at picking up women becomes their passion.
Guess what happens once they get the girl?
Mission accomplished! Yeah!
But, they don’t have a true purpose that drives them to live their lives to the fullest and be the best they can be; other than their quest to get hot women, they do not really have a life purpose planned ahead. Their quest is doomed to fail sooner or later, a quest that just ended as soon as the deal has been sealed.
Guess what, no more drive, no more hot girls!
The 10 who is used to deal with the coolest man out there can smell that this is about to happen which, in turn, is going to turn her off!
Another thing is, this paradigm puts the woman as the target you’re hunting, which, even if you use deception to hide that fact, is the opposite of what you need to do.
Rock stars don’t chase women, women chase rock star!
The idea is to attract women naturally by offering something rare that she cannot normally have!
If you want to get the top women, you need to be at your best and the only way you can do that is to be true. At this level, fake is just not good enough.
Like rock stars do, go after your own passion in life, do something that drives you, and hot women will come. But never go after women only. Do not make them your only focus.
Build a crazy, hot, exultant, passionate single life for yourself!
Work passionately on your business and build yourself a small empire! Make great friends that will help you achieve your purpose in life and have great fun with them! Get involved in some awesome hobbies that make you feel alive!
Develop an awesome dating life! With online dating, it’s quite easy to date cool new girls on a regular basis. Don’t take it seriously, just have fun with them, enjoy your freedom as a single men in his prime and at his full potential.
Have at least 2 girlfriends or fuck-friends at a time, and continue to date and flirt with new girls everywhere you go. Once you have at least 2 fuck-friends that you regularly have hot sex with, your social and sexual confidence will shine strong enough that it’s going to become easier, week by week, girl by girl, to simply attract and grow your chicks network.
It is synergic, the more women you have in your life, the more women will be attracted to you.
Don’t worry about how hot they are at this point; just go with what you can get at the level you are, have fun, and then build up from there.
But keep in mind that this is not your main goal; this is just another item in your awesome lifestyle that you’re building for yourself. Your only problem at this point will be to make room for all those cool things to do and all those chicks calling you for some fun. You might have to refuse hot sex a few times!
The main idea is that at one point your life must be so cool, and you must be so sexually satisfied, that any hot women you meet, even a 10, is going to feel that: You don’t really need her in your life, and honestly, even if she met your standards, you’re more than excited with your current life, and you just don’t see the point in putting energy to chasing her.
This is when you become a real hot chick magnet!
With time your confidence and your appreciation for being a free single man having a colorful sexual life will grow. Your standards in matter of women will grow from dating 7’s to 8’s, and soon to 9’s and 10’s.
At that point, all your girlfriends, including the 9’s and 10’s, will only want one thing from you.
They will want the things you don’t want to give them; your freedom!
The fact that you are a single man is now so cool that this very fact will make them want to take it from you even more.
The day a very hot woman will want to be in a serious relationship with you, and you are thinking twice about it because you just love your freedom, living your purpose, going after your passion and having crazy sexual adventures, is going to be the day when the 9 and 10 will chase you and do whatever it takes to get you.
The reason why rock stars end up with top models is not only because of their fame; it’s because they have a super cool lifestyle; they live their passion and purpose every day, and frankly, they bang so many chicks that they just don’t want to get stuck in a long-term relationship; well, maybe they might make a exception if a girl is a super-hot top model.
And guess what … they end up getting trapped with a super-hot top model!
This type of attitude and confidence level, supplied by your dream lifestyle, will extend your social value through the roof!
Now, something that you can do right now to start building your chicks network is to get a good online dating book like Online Dating: Master The Art of Internet Dating: Create The Best Profile, Choose The Right Pictures, Communication Advice… also in Audio Book here, then open a few online dating accounts and follow the direction from the book. I guarantee that it will be a great start! Online dating can be an extremely efficient tool to bring a never ending flow of new, available, looking for sex, women in your life, if done the right way, thus creating a solid platform on which you can build on.
One last thing to keep in mind: once you chose to settle down with that 9 or 10, you need to keep chasing your dream and living a passionate life. If you drop everything just because you settled down, you’re going to lose the girl in no time.
Until next post,