Unless you want to have children and start a family with a woman, long-term relationship where she moves in with you, simply do not worth all the problems. I could write an entire book on all the risks and problems with live-in girl-friend LTR in this modern “progressive” feminist world, but instead, I will focus on the solution with this post.
In this fuck-up society, when it comes to women, the best is simply to date.
More sex, more fun, no problems, fewer risks and you don’t end ‘up feeling like a castrated indoor cat.
After many years of dating disappointment, I came to a state where if I can manage to have a first date with a girl, 90% of the time I’m able to convert her into my girl-friend / fuck friend with ease and have regular dates and sex with her, as I want.
The other 10% is mostly because I find out she’s way too crazy and run away.
This post layout my 15 basic rules of successful dating, and if you understand and follow them, it will help you tremendously to have a great sex life.
1 – Touch her right from the start.
One of the biggest problems, when you date a new girl, is to break the ice between the non-physical kind of flirting and the physical escalation that will eventually lead up to kissing and sex.
The thing is, the more you wait to proceed, more awkward it will be.
I am sure you want to wait for the perfect moment, but what if there is no “perfect moment”?
Now you’re getting anxious because you are framing yourself in the friend zone, the girl feels it, now she thinks you’re a creepy loser… What a mess…
I have a method to get this problem out of the way very easily.
Just at the beginning of your first date, you move directly to the girl with confidence and say, “Hello, How are you?”, then hug her and kiss her on both cheeks. Then take one of her hand turn around, start walking in the direction of your next destination, while holding her hand, pull her with you and say: Let’s go, we’re going to “the park or whatever”, I know a nice spot, it’s going to be great.
Since she does not have much experience with you, she will assume, that you’re just a guy like that. That it’s normal for you to hug and kiss and hold hands.
After all, it is appropriate behavior, she’s on a date!!!
She will also feel relieved that the ice is already broken without any awkwardness and be grateful for that. Very quickly, she will feel it natural to have physical contact with you.
Also, it will create attraction right from the start because you’re taking charge.
Inside the first 10 second, you broke the ice, hold her by the hand, and lead her to the first activity.
This is pure masculine energy just right there.
If you do not fucked-it up, later on, consider you just sealed the deal in the first 10 second of the first date.
2 – Always lead.
You are the man; you need to lead, period.
The truth is, she wants you to lead and she expects you to lead.
You have invited her on a date, it is your date.
Have a plan A, a plan B, and even a plan C and proceed accordingly.
Just bring her there, and start having fun.
Hold her by the hand or hold her at the level of the shoulder if possible and physically lead her where to go.
Do not let her run the show! It is your show!
This is a must for attraction.
3 – Do what you like to do.
One of the main reasons you are dating this girl is to have fun right?
What better way to enjoy yourself than doing what you like to do!
Bring her into your world; make her experience what it is to have fun for you.
Have the “take it or leave it” attitude.
This is what dating with you is, if she does not like it, no big deal, she can go back home anytime.
This is extremely attractive because it also demonstrates that you have confidence with women in general. You can “afford” to do whatever you like to do simply because for you; it is not a big deal if she does not like the activity or leaves.
It sub-communicate that it is probably very easy for you to have dates, thus, that women, in general, are attracted to you.
It’s not a big deal, it’s just another girl… among many.
Doing whatever you like is a demonstration of high value.
4– Stay on the move.
When, your sitting in front of her taking a coffee, a lot of things can go wrong. You can say stupid shit; you can run out of things to talk about; or worst, you can end up talking about politics.
In addition, when you stay still and drink coffee you both have more chance to get in your head and become anxious.
When you are on the move, you both walk side by side, looking forward.
She doesn’t see every single facial expression you do.
If you do not talk for a couple of minutes, it doesn’t feel awkward.
She cannot over analyze every single micro expression trying to figure out your insecurities.
Also, physical activity is good to dissipate stress and anxiety, for both of you. Since you are in motion, it is also easier to escalate physically. Just hold her hand more often or playfully pushing her around a little bit.
The more venue you will visit during your date, the more different experiences she will have with you, consequently the more at ease she will feel.
First, you drag her to a nearby outdoor store; you need to look for an accessory. You chill there, have fun trying silly stuff. Then you bring her hiking, in a nice park, at the beach, in the woods, whatever. You have some nice physical fun, you hold her hand, you help her to cross the little stream because she afraid to fall, she holds your hand, you are her hero… Then you bring her back home for a snack because after some good physical fun you’re both are starving… serve some wine with the food, then you need to relax a little bit so …. yadee yadee yada… easy peasy right.!
An active date is a great way to keep anxiety at bay and it is way more fun.
5 – Kiss her.
Even if it’s the first date, don’t wait too much to kiss her!
Don’t wait for the end of the date.
Mid date, once the fun is started, both enjoying the activity, kiss her.
If there is no perfect moment, don’t get anxious or stress about it, it would make thing awkward.
You’re the leader, it’s your date, take it or leave it, remember!
Once I was dating this super hot Thai chick, but she was so shy, I could not find a smooth way to kiss her. At one point we both seated on a bench at the park, I looked at her and said: Wanna kiss? She was so shy and surprised! She said yes, and I kissed her. That it, that all!
Of course, she said yes, every girl hopes for a kiss during a date. They are just waiting for you to take the lead and make it happen. If you don’t, what a disappointment…
Don’t wait, take charge, do it!
The bolder you are, wetter she will be.
6 – Don’t say, “I love you”.
This one is for the younger folks, it’s a beginner mistake.
Each time I told to a girl, I was dating “I love you”, that was the beginning of the end.
Once you say “I love you”, the seduction game is over.
She won you! She doesn’t have to seduce you anymore. Now she thinks she holds you by the balls.
The excitement is over, the fun part is over.
Also, you just gave up all your leverage for attraction.
It is a dumb move and it underlines the fact that you’re a needy beta male who doesn’t understand how women are.
Unless you are to date 27 and she says it first, and that you are certain you want to have kids with her, just shut your mouth.
7 – Never tell her how many girlfriends you had sex with.
Chances are, at one point she will ask a question of that nature.
It is a trap, a set-up!
There is no way this will end up being a good thing for you if you go down that path.
Do not give her the answer she wants.
Do not talk about previous relationships, period.
It’s her female instinct trying to stir up some drama.
It’s too perfect at that point, she wants to cry, bitch and complaint a little.
Whatever if the number you give is high or low, it will create a cascade of problems…
Say a joke or just tell her that it is not of her business, and hold your position on that. This one is not negotiable.
In the end, she will respect you for it and she will know that all her little naughty/dirty secrets, will stay undisclosed with you, even once the relationship is over, no matter what.
8 – Always have options.
The most powerful thing you can do be irresistibly attractive to a woman is to be attractive to other women. Competition among women to get you is without any doubt the single most attractive quality you can have.
A lot of those rules, subtlety suggests that you are a man who has options. Like this “take it or leave it” attitude, for example, it implies you have choices; another woman could replace her easily.
A lot of your seduction power revolves around this and that also why saying “I love you” is a killer.
In the end, the best way to create the impression that other women are competing for you is to make it real.
If you can date more than one girl at the time, or keep a fuck-friend on the sideline, it is the best.
In the case you do not have another female option; you can create the same effect with friends.
Always, double book your date. If she canceled, does not show up, or start misbehaving, no problem, your friends are aware that you might come by.
She texts you, “I don’t know about Friday, will see”. Text her back 10 minutes later, “Forget about Friday, I got something.”
9 – Never apologize for being yourself.
Whether you made a mistake, you’re a little late, maybe she doesn’t really like the activity, complains that you are too pushy or maybe not enough or whatever verbal or non-verbal criticisms she has.
Never apologize or denigrate yourself in any way.
We all know, nobody’s perfect, we all make mistakes, no need to underline it or to apologize for it!
Just move on, that’s it.
All sentences starting with, “Sorry, if have been a jerk, blah blah blah…” are stating aloud that you are a loser.
This is a classic low value, beta-male, nice guy strategy that doesn’t work.
Trying to appeal to her compassion in order to get a “second chance” from her is completely anti-attractive.
Trying to look like a nice, sensitive person in order to differentiate yourself from the other jerks is pathetic and it is the strategy of a weak man, who knows nothing about women.
It represents all the opposite of what you need to portray on a date.
She needs to compete for your heart against all the other girls.
She needs to “qualify” to you because you are the prize, you are a high-value male.
Confidence, options, and strength of character are the things she needs to feel from you.
Never put yourself in a situation that makes you look or feel pathetic.
Nothing kills attraction like self-pity.
10 – Don’t make her your priority.
An interesting person has things going on.
Even more, a high-value man has big things going on.
Interesting and fun friends, a business to run or a career, some projects and undoubtedly other girls asking for his attention…
If you gave her first priority, not only you give her the power to run the show, which is very unattractive, but it also underlines that you don’t have anything important or valuable going on.
Moreover, by putting her on a pedestal, you are lowering yourself down and that when women like to date up.
Women are attracted to men with higher social status, funnier, smarter and stronger than they are.
By making her your priority, you are just demonstrating the opposite.
You might have a spot for her next Saturday, maybe, to early to tell, you will let her know…
11 – Don’t be afraid to lose her.
A woman will be highly sexually attracted to you during a date if she can feel you can just walk away anytime and get your dick sucked by another woman that same evening.
Thus the purpose of having options. See rule #8.
You need to go to that date with, in your mind, that you can walk away anytime and easily find another one.
With the dating sites, social media, etc… once you have a nice profile and a smooth system you can pull a new girl every 2 weeks …
No Big Deal!
A man of value is not afraid to lose her, because he knows by experience, that a nicer one can be just around the corner.
If you think like that man, she will feel it.
12 – Be ultra confident.
Great confidence is a like a pussy magnet. You better be exaggeratedly confidant than not enough. All the shit-tests and the little game women do to fuck with your head are in part to test your level of confidence.
How to be ultra confident on a date?
Good planning on a well-known territory with previous experiences.
Generally, confidence comes from experience and that simply because when you have the experience you know what to expect.
When you do what you like to do (see Rule #3), in general, you are in a well-known territory. Right?
You know where it is, how it works… you already been there and did that, you will be confident because it feels like home.
A good plan, with backup plans, doing something you know well and enjoy, will provide you great confidence.
Another trick is, to repeat the same date with different girls.
That right! You had an awesome date with Jessica, why not do the same with Tamya next week?
Bring her to the same venues, do the same routine. Now you have the hand on experience, your confidence will be much higher the 2nd and the 3rd time around.
You know all the details, how to avoid traffic, where to park the car, where to get a snack on the way.
Plan the date around something you know well and you will feel at ease and in control.
13 – Make her chase you.
Basically, let her put more energy into seducing you, that you put into seducing her.
Besides the entire logistics of the date and leading her to your bed, which are your complete and full responsibility. For the rest of the proof of affections, let her do it first and always give less in return.
Women date up, means they are attracted to a man they believe to be higher than themselves in the social hierarchy.
You just need to provide her the social cues to confirm her that she was right about you being higher than she is.
Now, if you are, indeed, higher than her, why would you put so much effort into chasing her?
It would not make any sense, right?
That’s why you must let her chase you.
Lets her give you a couple of compliments first then compliment her back.
Let her buy you some little gifts first, and then reciprocate.
Lay back, grab some popcorn and let her convince you that she is the girl who deserves you.
14 – Fuck her with passion and high intensity.
After 2 or 3 dates, its time to bring her home for sex. Do not go with a smooth, politically correct boring sex for the first time. Going smoothly for the first time is a very bad idea. The only exception is if she a total virgin, then you will need to escalate more slowly.
To finish the date in beauty, you need to rock her world by giving her one of those roller coaster rides she did not see coming.
Keep yourself some energy because the first time you fuck her, you will make it epic.
Let your deepest primal sexual urge unravel on her like a thunderstorm.
Once it’s on, take control and make her yours.
Create a deep primal, sexual and emotional connection and let yourself go.
Kiss her, lick her, everywhere and do it more than once if possible.
If she wakes up at 10:00 the next morning, trouble to walk, her hair FUBAR, and go home to take a nap. Well, mission accomplished, she will come back for more… guaranteed.
The first impression really matters.
15 – Control, the birth control.
Do not let her control the birth control. Do not trust her for that. This is a very important rule if you want to have a long and happy dating life.
- Buy the condom.
- Open the condom.
- Put the condom on.
- Then, remove the condom.
- Make a knot in the condom and flush it yourself in the toilet, with some toilet paper.
Control it from A to Z. Don’t hesitate to be a birth control freak.
This is no joke, besides that statistically, there are good chances she as an STD, since most women are promiscuous those days, do not give her the opportunity to trick you into a pregnancy in order to collect money from you for the next 20 years.
She will tell you, its ok, no need, I take the pills!
First, the pills do not protect against STDs and second, you have no proof of that. Never trust her on that.
Better learn from the mistakes of others than to ruin your life for a chick.
That is it.
If you follow those 15 directives, you should be on your way to a very successful dating life. If you think those rules are nonsense and will make you a complete jerk, it is just because you haven’t unplugged yourself from the feminist hypnotic trance yet. In that case, keep reading my site…
After all, we are not the one who fucked-up the social fabric of our society, but as a man, you need to adapt if you don’t want to get screwed.
Like my body always says; don’t hate the players, hate the game!
On this, stay strong and share if you like.